Thursday, July 2, 2020

Is he just being nice texting me back

And he is nice to me and stuff like he always offers me help and says yes if I ask for favors. But sometimes I feel like I might annoy him. He is a very confusing texter.


Because sometimes it is impossible to tell. Believe me , if he was just being nice , he would never show such interest in your life. He would spend time with you in conversation just to be polite and not because he wants you and the difference between the two is huge.

That can be a telltale sign that heyou. But if he talks to you a lot about his ex or his actual current girlfriend he is just venting, or looking for a side chick so avoid him. If he compliments your looks, he may just be nice. And if he constantly does it that may just be his personality.


Sometimes right away, sometimes after a few hours which is totally fine. Texting , believe it or not, has a lot of parallels to actual conversation. If he’s not asking about your day, or about how the presentation went with James and Anna, it means that he probably — gasp — doesn’t even know who Anna is.


In truth, he could be either of those things: not interested and just being polite, or he’s really interested and he just lacks the confidence to effectively communicate his interest. Either way, it’s really confusing.

The good news is, it’s not up to you to figure it out. They might ask you for suggestions but you will never be a part of their lives. It will just be plain simple ones. This is a crystal clear sign that tells you he is attracted and not just being nice. This probably would have been my question.


I thought my gut had a better answer. So, anyways this guy I was in a relationship with. He invited me to his shore house twice now where ive met his parents and some of his friends. Is he just being nice texting me back.


Make sure that he is not just being nice texting you back. Grinning, and not in a Posed Way Again, observing how the object of your interest acts with other people can give a lot of insight into how he feels about you. Although it feels so great being able to message with him each day, it is also so painful because I am reminded what a great guy I lost because of my bad attitude. Sometimes I feel that there is, for sure, more than friendship and he keeps always texting me how nice our date was.


A week ago we’ve been to a concert and he wrote me how much he enjoyed to spend the evening with me and that it was very important to him. Guys don’t usually keep texting someone if they’re not interested in them, but if they do, it could be one of several simple reasons. As in life, the simplest explanation is usually the right one, but let’s run through some of the possibilities just to make sure all bases are covered.


People get bored and texting is something to do. I think heyou, not just being friendly – Signal 7: He ’s told his friends about you… Guys don’t talk about girls they aren’t interested in.

But the signs are actually quite easy to rea if you pay close attention. We're not talking full-on groping here but if a guy's interested in you, he 's going to try subtle ways to get physical with you. Here are seven things you should look out for.


Instea he might even be left thinking, “Okay cool, she just needs a bit of space. She’s being nice to me and isn’t saying that there is no chance, so it must mean she still cares about me and wants me back, but just needs some time apart. I’ll just wait for her to figure things out and then we can get back together. Their politeness is almost uncomfortable. It’s like they are going out of their way to be “nice” to you out of pity.


Just a few of these signs means you may still have a chance, if you can get your ex to lower their guard and emotionally open up (See my article: Fast Track Getting Back Your Ex With This Move). So how do you tell if he’s really flirting? There are a lot of subtle signals that you might be looking at and trying to interpret.


Your gut is telling you one thing, but you’re not sure. You could just be imagining things. A guy who’s into you is grinning from ear to ear, and his smile will undoubtedly just be one indicator of how happy being around you makes him. He stays engage interested and involved because, well, he’s into you. He goes out of his way to do nice things for you.


He offers to fix your car, or give you guitar lessons, free of charge. Question: “I’ve been going out on dates again lately, and I realized… I have a problem. I know this might sound weir but I really can’t tell if a guy is actually flirting with me , or just trying to “be nice ” to me to avoid being awkward.


Mind you, no one else at the table noticed or tried to help me, except him. Now there was a previous interaction between me and him. One time he offered to give me and another guy a ride home.

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