Having no friends in your 20s

Things No One Ever Tells You About Friendship In Your Late 20s. In your early 20s, your friends become some of the most important people in your life — essentially, they are the family. Well, this may sound like a real pity party, but they’re facts.

Unfortunately, they happen to be rather unsavory ones. I wouldn’t say I don’t have any friends.

Graduating from college comes with many changes. The most significant would be the loss of friendships. I am sort of awkwar but I REALLY made an effort to get over my anxiety and meet others. But with no friends to start out with, it is so hard to just find that first group of people. And a year of failing at that is SO draining.

Then things went downward even more. I firmly believe in the importance of having that one anchored friend who is your ride or die.

But as you know, mine happens to live in San Antonio, about 0miles away from me. So I have no choice but to find new friends if I want weekend plans from time to time. Shows like “Friends” made me think adulthood would be filled with magical friendships no matter our stage in life.

Being single in your 30s vs. My town is small and there are no meetup groups. It’s easy to feel lonely in your 20’s and 30’s: having roommates begins to lose its appeal, and between work, taking care of yourself, and people coupling up like crazy, your network steadily begins to shrink.

I am no stranger to this “I don’t have any friends,” feeling. However, there certainly have been times in my life where I feel quite lonely and friendless. There were people in my life at that time, but I was missing closeness. How To Make Friends In Your 20s As Adults After College.

Dear Polly, I’m in my late 20s. I live with a great boyfriend in a great city and have a great job in a field I am passionate about. I have a good relationship with my family and have had many happy connections with all sorts of folks over my lifetime. All the things life throws at you in your mid-twenties is why is the worst age for friendships.

Older friends might not want to party anymore or eat junk food as much, creating unintentional disturbances in friendships. If this happened with one of your friends , just know that it’s normal.

In time, you’ll experience it too. You don’t feel bad either, because it’s not as if they’ll vanish from your life. There’s no drama, because there was no significance. Making friends as an adult sounds like a herculean feat because none of this is supposed to be easy.

The roommate moved out for the summer, and the fling moved on. And the female Casper was caught up in her own loneliness of another kind – that of having just broken up with. Was anyone the same and has managed to get some sort of life? Why is the decade friends disappear — and what to do about it.

It’s easy for this generation to assume that 30s are the new 20s and move on without giving the new decade a. It is inevitable that you will lose friends who were once so dear and close to you at one point in your life. Why it more often than not happens in your 20s … well there’s a few reasons for that.