Is he attracted to me or just being nice

He is probably just trying to let you know that he is not attracted to you but is actually just being nice because he maybeyou but only as a frien or he is just an ass and doesn’t care about your feelings or isn’t even aware of the fact that you like him. Being nice has certain limitations and if your guy seems to overcome those, then you are in for a major luck. There is a fine line between being nice and flirting an sometimes, guys send mixed signals that leave you wondering, Is he interested ? That can be a telltale sign that heyou.

But if he talks to you a lot about his ex or his actual current girlfriend he is just venting, or looking for a side chick so avoid him.

If he compliments your looks, he may just be nice. And if he constantly does it that may just be his personality. This is especially hard in the workplace, where flirting can be tricky if you don’t want to cross any professional lines.

Interested men remember past conversations and specific details about women. This is a sign that he wants to understand you better. He makes constant eye contact that lingers.

Looking someone in the eye when you’re talking to them is only polite, but if his gazes linger long enough for you to notice but just short of being creepy, he’s probably feeling more than a little flirty.

There are a lot of subtle signals that you might be looking at and trying to interpret. Your gut is telling you one thing, but you’re not sure. You could just be imagining things. In truth, he could be either of those things: not interested and just being polite, or he’s really interested and he just lacks the confidence to effectively communicate his interest.

Either way, it’s really confusing. The good news is, it’s not up to you to figure it out. He seems to like you as a friend but just let time pass and see how it goes. It always seems like he’s watching what I’m doing. He’s usually the one who starts the conversations.

But, we don’t talk right away. He try’s not to smerk at some points but I see he really wants too. Just because a guy is shy doesn’t mean that he doesn’t want to open his heart out, it’s just that he wants to feel secure and comfortable in the company of the other person before doing so.

Their sensitivity prevents them from being too open initially from the fear of getting hurt or rejected. If everything a guy does seems to be leading up to that first kiss then you keep assuming he feels attracted to you. If you’re impatient or are interested in time savers – the moment you’re close enough – make that kiss happen!

Even if it’s just a small peck on the lips or neck.

Puts his hand around you differently from other friends. If you aren’t sure if that guy you have your eye on is flirting with you or just playing nice, consider the above and pay attention. When a guy you’re attracted to is flirting with you, you can’t help feel like you’re high.

At the same time, it can be confusing to tell if a guy is flirting with you or just being nice. Is he smiling at you because he finds you cute and wants to date you, or because he thinks you’re a good person and true friend? I know women who have misread the signs that a guy is flirting with them.

Only to find out he was just being friendly. For example: I was collecting money for a charity with a frien and there was this guy who was staring at me while I was asking people. When I asked him for money, he was really polite in general.

Like he not only went to get his money to donate but also got all his friends to donate as well. If he is just being nice, he will talk to you because he has to, or because you’re nearby and he feels like chatting. Here are seven things you should look out for. Some handle it better than others.

A guy who’s into you is grinning from ear to ear, and his smile will undoubtedly just be one indicator of how happy being around you makes him. He stays engage interested and involved because, well, he’s into you. But the goal is always the same. He goes out of his way to do nice things for you.

He offers to fix your car, or give you guitar lessons, free of charge. If your ex does all these things, and you still have feelings for them, then rejoice.